New Year's

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

XOXO~ Shelby

New Years Eve!!!

It's the last day of the year so celebrate it and go WILD! (Not tooooo crazy now!) Tell that one special 1 person how you feel! Let the world know who you are. FREAK THE FREAK OUT! Have a wonderful day and DON'T FORGET your New Years Resolutions!

XOXO~ Shelby

Pain of Regret

The Pain of Regret. Its when you stop what you love doing, and look back on quiting and ask, "Why did I quit?" You realize life might have turned out differently if you had only stayed and finished what you love. I loved to cheer. I quit because of some complications, and I regret that everyday. I decided to jump back in because it is something that I love! I realized quitting was a mistake, and I am fixing it. If there is something you love to do, GO FOR IT!

This is when I was a little younger.

XOXO~ Shelby

Pain of Discipline

Ah, Yes! The Pain of Discipline. It is when you work really hard for something. Right now we may think it is dumb, or ask "Why are we doing this?" People realize that to find your treasure, you must take a journey, only to find out your treasure is where you began. (I learned that from the Alchemist) If you decide to quit... The Pain of Regret would soon kick in.

XOXO~ Shelby

Love

Love is a word we don't hear very often. It is used when one if strongly fond of another. Love is spelt luv when used towards friends. But what does love mean?

Love -  1. a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.

3. sexual passion or desire.

4. a person toward whom love is felt; beloved person; sweetheart.

5. (used in direct address as a term of endearment, affection, or the like): Would you like to see a movie, love?

6. a love affair; an intensely amorous incident; amour.

7. sexual intercourse; copulation.

8. ( initial capital letter ) a personification of sexual affection, as Eros or Cupid.

9. affectionate concern for the well-being of others: the love of one's neighbor.

 

A lesson - Use the word love sparingly. Some people aren't ready to say love, but when they do, they have hopes of not chasing away that special person. Love is on occasion. Keep an eye out for it, and it will eventually find you.

 

XOXO~ Shelby

True Beauty and True Friends

When I saw True Beauty, I mean the beauty within one's self. I currently just got into a big fight with my "best friend". I stated that in quotations because we are no longer speaking. Its silly little things that can break up a long term friendship. Silly things in my case: a boy.

Now in my eyes, TRUE BEAUTY is being who you truely are. Be a jock, popular, nerd. Be anything you want to be and eventually you will have true friends with true beauty.

In my case, I like this guy who my friend also likes. Well, we started to talk about him and she realized that he was more important then me. Lets just say, friends come in go, but best friends will stay forever.

XOXO~ Shelby

Called Beautiful and Hot

Beauty -a word that we all may know. But what does it really mean?

When you look it up in a dictionary it states;
1.  the quality present in a thing or person that gives intense pleasure or deep satisfaction to the mind, whether arising from sensory manifestations (as shape, color, sound, etc.), a meaningful design or pattern, or something else (as a personality in which high spiritual qualities are manifest).

2.  a beautiful person, esp. a woman.

3.  a beautiful thing, as a work of art or a building.

 

To Me - Beauty is simply another word. Some girls want a guy to call them beautiful instead of hot. In the mind of that thought, a person who is hot is one who likes to show off their body, or are just looking good at that particular moment. When a girl is called beautiful, it simply states that the women is entirely beautiful, inside and out. By being called beautiful, a girl is able to feel important.

 

Hot - I am not saying that being called hot is a bad thing. I would be a hypocrit if I did, simply because guys call me hot often. (I am not trying to be concieded on that note, I am simply saying what happens to me.)

1.  By the dictionary, hot means;

having or giving off heat; having a high temperature: a hot fire; hot coffee.

2.  having or causing a sensation of great bodily heat; attended with or producing such a sensation: He was hot with fever.

3. creating a burning sensation, as on the skin or in the throat: This ointment is hot, so apply it sparingly.

4.  sharply peppery or pungent: Is this mustard hot?

5.  having or showing intense or violent feeling; ardent; fervent; vehement; excited: a hot temper.

6.  Informal . having a strong enthusiasm; eager: a hot baseball fan.

7. Slang . a. sexually aroused; lustful. b. sexy; attractive.

8. violent, furious, or intense: the hottest battle of the war.

9. strong or fresh, as a scent or trail

 

On That Note - Believe in yourself. If you like being called hot rather than beautiful, well that is your choice. If this sounds rude, I apologize. It was not meant to sound that way. Be who you are, and DO NOT change for anyone!

 

XOXO ~ Shelby